We LOVE soccer!

Our family loves soccer. Ok, we like soccer...or we enjoy watching in good weather and know some of the rules. I still don't get off sides though. I made the mistake of asking one of the high school kids what it meant to be called off sides. It was something like this.

Me: Ok, what is off sides in soccer?

Kid: well, it's a tricky one.

Me:Try me. I know ALL about basketball and football and mostly about baseball.

Kid: We, you have to be very careful who plays ahead of the opposing player. It has to do with unfair advantage....blah, blah, blah.

Me: Can you start over and relate it to a sport I know something about?

Kid: (looks at me like I'm an idiot), okay, well, it is a tricky call...it...

Me: Never mind.

My baby boy loves soccer though, no other way to say it. He LOVES soccer. He's a good player and actually wishes they have practice every day. At least this early in the season!
He's played for several years now but we are barely closer to understanding exactly how things are supposed to go. 
I DO know about HAT TRICKS though. That's THREE goals in one game for you beginners.

Juvenile Fiction is my life!

My current juvenile fiction love is The Doldrums. How often are we gifted with a fabulous book with incredible illustrations? It's almost unheard of but the author and the illustrator are the SAME PERSON, Nicholas Gannon. I was in love after just a page or two. 

The premise is a family consisting of two parents an a child that is a "dreamer". Archer's father's parents are world renowned explorers and his mother is doing her best to make sure Archer isn't like "them." She desperately wants Archer to be normal. It very hard if you live in a four story house decorated by your explorer grandparents. The narrow house is in New York City and is FULL of taxidermy "pets" for Archer. He is often heard speaking to his animal pets much to the chagrin of his mother. His father is an attorney and MAY have been a dreamer at one stage but doesn't have much of it left. He does, however, realize that "being a Helmsley means something."

The grandparents are current lost and presumed dead after being abandoned on an iceberg. Archer gets packages tied with a red ribbon from his grandparents. He cherishes these journals and gifts from his grandparents. One of his favorites is a glass eye. He knows he is different and the gift of an eye proves his is really a Helmsley.

Archer doesn't have many friends because the other kids consider him as having 'a few too many cracks in his nut.'

Archer does have two very special friends, in addition to his many taxidermy friends. The boring life of summer is coming to an end and Archer and his friends will be attending a school known as The Button Factory.
In a nutshell, this book is fabulous! There is a sequel, too. It is described at a 'stand alone sequel', whatever that means. I will be buying the REAL book and will keep it forever. 

Readings

I’ve always been a reader. I know...everybody is a reader. I read for pleasure. Fiction, mostly mysteries are my favorite. Sue Grafton’s alphabet series (may she rest on peace) are some of my favorites. The Stephanie Plum series are fabulous as well. I must admit they crack me up but seem to be getting shorter and more monotonous. Anyway, I love juvenile fiction as well. Stay tuned for a review of my current reads.

I also read blogs. I was a fan of The Pioneer Woman (http://thepioneerwoman.com/) before she was famous. She makes me so want to live on a working ranch and homeschool. Well, at least own Bassett hounds and wear cowboy boots. A couple of my ‘go to’ blogs are The Nienie Dialogues (http://www.nieniedialogues.com) She’s such an incredible force. She and her husband survived a plane crash and her resilience since is nothing but inspirational. Her photography isn’t professional but more than adequate and quickly you forget as you are drawn in to her amazing self. A worthy read.

Quarters One (http://quarters1.blogspot.com/)is also one of my go tos. Shand is a career Army spouse as her husband is a commanding general. Her son in laws are serving and she in chin deep in military life. I love that her husband is sometimes deployed, sometimes kids get married and move away and sometimes the move to another military base. She is so patriotic but also has great taste in decorating and a keen sense of military history. Their current military is first rate (literally as he’s the top dog) but past housing is historical and amazing. If you visit at Quarters One make sure to read back to prior housing.

If an extra moment is found in your day I’d highly recommend the blogs I’ve mentioned. Let me know what you think.

What If.....

What if THIS is your kid?

What if the first kid had one HUGE dream

What if he always wanted to be a helicopter pilot

What if he was happy to travel with his mother and grandmother UNTIL he saw a helicopter

What if his Dad knew it would happen

What if he chose an Army theme for every birthday party and Halloween costume

What if he decided to join the Guard at 17 and you had to sign for him

What if he went to basic training before he could vote

What if he left for weeks with only a Bad Company quote for his mom

What if he wrote letters to his Great Grandmother while he was gone

What if his mom cried through his basic graduation

What if he didn't really like school

What if he knew he HAD to have a degree to be an Army officer

What if he made the Dean's List

What if he joined ROTC

What if he went to PT before dawn

What if he jumped out of perfectly good airplanes

What if he graduated a semester earlier than his class

What if he was commissioned an Army officer the next day

What if he got a call a few weeks later asking if he could be in Fort Rucker in Jan

What if he didn't hesitate to load his beloved car and drive 10 hours to begin flight school

What if he now has a duplex with furniture and neighbors and cable TV

What if he makes his own dinner and takes out his trash

What if he completed dunker training

What if he is beginning a portion of training that his mother is scared to think about

What if his dad knows it will be beneficial and maybe life saving

What if the second kid is still so excited to be an Army officer

You may have noticed that my pictures of the supporting characters here at The Carlisle Connection have changed! It is a shock to me every day how they have grown and become such good, compassionate and wonderful people. Still a work in progress....but getting closer every day. Our goal is to raise self sufficient hard working adults. It's a process.

I took this picture the day before The Future Trooper graduated from basic training, August 2014.

He was so excited and ready to go as I cried like a fool. He turned to me as he got in the van to take him away and said, Don't cry Mama, smile and wave goodbye."  Song reference anyone?

Anyway, it was incredibly hard to wait for his calls and letters. Big Daddy knew what was going on at basic and found my misery mildly humorous. This "child" who never liked to read or write stories wrote wonderful detailed letters to us as well as his grandmother and great-grandmother.

I cannot describe how proud we were when he graduated from basic training at Fort Jackson, South Carolina, 35 years after his dad did the same.

I have always thought our boys resembled me more and Little Girl looked more alike her dad and his people. This picture may have proved me wrong. Just maybe..

The Future Trooper is now an active member of ROTC and a Criminology major with a minor in Military Science. He is a good student and is on track to graduate a semester early. He saved his money from basic and bought himself a new car...a story for another post.

I'll be back soon.

Well...hello there

It appears spring may have come to our little corner of the universe.  I was a perfect 70-ish degrees today and we needed every degree of it (Carol Burnett reference...anyone?) We have all been cooped up and cranky with each other...since Fall...even the bird has been crankier than usual.  I little sunshine even perked him up a bit.

As the blog states this is intended to give you random bits from our busy family. Here goes random:

1.  Future Trooper joined the Kentucky National Guard in October and we are all planning for his trip to South Carolina for basic training. It will certainly be a tough day but a wonderful step in achieving his goals.

2.  Sister is (at least) 5 feet 8 inches tall and still has flaming red locks and a spicy sense of humor and sassy attitude.  She is consumed with friends and volleyball.  She is really enjoying reading the classes...not.

3.  My baby boy, AKA, The Angel is involved in nearly every activity that comes his way. His brother takes him to Boy Scouts, which they both love.  He is also involved in archery.  In a tournament today he shot all 7's and 8's...I know NOTHING about archery but that seems pretty good for a fella with little stick arms.  He has also competed in academic team, and basketball and will start soccer in the summer. He has an incredibly messy room and every friend is described as "My best friend."

4. Big Daddy works, of course, and fixes stuff we break and occasionally has time to work on his own projects.

5.  We have grown by one guinea pig since I updated the pet list...and the bird, or course.  If you have never owned a bird you will not know how humorous it is to hear a bird yell, "STOP IT" in your voice. I had no idea how many times I say "SHUT UP" to my dogs in a days time.  Now Heckle does is for me.  Cracks me up every time!

6.  I have been working a couple days a week with my second family and enjoy every day.  I worked there in high school and through college and it came back pretty quick. It is even the very place I met Big Daddy.  Awwwww......25 short years ago!

That about gets you caught up from the last post.  I'll try to do better and look forward to filling you in on basketball and spring and life's other important issues.

Ta da!!

I can't tell you how thrilled I am with my $70 bookshelves! Just a little sanding, priming and pink glossy paint and Ta Da! The rest of the room is almost done....the TV is leaving....Big Daddy calls it the 72 Plymouth model.  I am going for the 2013 model next.